I Am Alive

Greetings and salutations everyone!

How are you doing? How are you feeling? As long as you’re not purposely causing harm to others, I hope that you’re thriving.

It’s been a long time since my last post, I think nearly a year but I’ve returned and wanted to let you know that

I’ll be back to posting soon. We’ve been through a lot in these past two years and I just haven’t been interested or inspired to write-whether it be on here or to create and self-publish new work. I just haven’t been inspired. You understand. Within these two years, I have been doing arts and crafts, which I’ve found to be peaceful and fun.

I’m going to show you some of what I’ve been doing, so look forward to that. There have been a few things that I want to do that I’ve been afraid of doing but I’m going to try. Well that’s it for now, but stayed tuned I’ll be back on a more regular basis. Until then, I wish you all happiness and love. Stay safe and be well.

My Year In Books 2020

It’s been a tumultuous year, but we’re nearly reached the end folks!

Via Giphy.com

Despite the mess of 2020, I read some books. You know the drill so without further ado let’s get into it shall we?

So this year’s goal was to read 30 books and miraculously I accomplished the goal. I read exactly 30 books which is interesting because normally I’ll read more than the goal stated but these are trying times and yeah I wasn’t worried about being productive.

Here’s an overview of what I read:

Looking at these books, some of them seemed so long ago. As you can see, it’s a mixture of graphic novels, comics, YA, and history. There’s two books that are often read in K-12, but the rest are what those heavy defenders of the classics would consider not literary material.

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I’ve mentioned this in the past, but The Outsiders is one of my favorite books I skipped reading it last year but this year I re-read it. Despite the author not being a fan of graphic novels, the book shall remain a favorite of mine. But boy it would be nice to see it in graphic novel form! Think of how many new readers would spring forth if they had that format in their hands. But if they author doesn’t want their work in other formats then, of course that’s their right.

This takes me to The Great Gatsby graphic novel that I read. I read the book in 11th grade I believe and I don’t remember anything about it so when the graphic novel arrived at my library, I decided to pick it up. It was a good read and I despised a few of the characters, but this format was an excellent choice. There are other GN of The Great Gatsby but this one was officially adapted from the novel. There’s also a film adaptation featuring one of my favorite actors and former celeb crush Leonardo DiCaprio and Tobey Maguire which I haven’t seen yet, so I hope to watch it in the future.

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As for the rest of the list, it features the usual type of fare I enjoy reading with a few musings:

  • There’s only one Star Wars book on there! I’ve got the new Thrawn novels and Queen’s Peirl on my reading list.
  • I read three self-help type of books one of which is in manga format. I haven’t watch Marie Kondo’s show on Netflix…
  • Read five historical books: I re-read he March series which details the life of the late Congressman John Lewis and I read two history books by author Blair Imani
  • Also read a lot of Black Panther related books-R.I.P. Chadwick Boseman
  • Got three of three books from the Twisted Tale series on the list. I haven’t read the latest two entries-that’s for next year.

So yeah that’s what I read this year. Next year I’ll continue to participate in the Goodreads Reading Challenge. I think I’ll lower the goal to ten books for the year. I do enjoy reading and it’s one of the few escapes I have from this horrible year.

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Edited by Me.

So let me end this post with the following questions:

  • How many books did you read this year? If you didn’t read any that’s okay too!
  • What was format were the books in-were they all print or a mixture of print, digital, audiobook?
  • Will you be reading next year? If so do you have a goal set?

Finally, I want to wish you all a Happy Holidays and New Year. Please stay safe, practice social distancing and wear a fucking mask when it’s required to do so. Don’t go quietly into the night and remember your existence is important.

Wear a mask! Via Giphy.com

I’ll see you soon.

-T.C.

Official Playlist: Cooper Whitelaw, Conman Extraordinaire

Dear Readers:

When I first self-published my murder mystery novella, Cooper Whitelaw, Conman Extraordinaire, I forgot to create an official playlist for the story! If you’ve read my other two worksI, Darcy and Orniainthi-both of these books have an official playlist. Music is an important part of my life and whenever I write, there’s a soundtrack playing in my mind for the story I’m creating.

Since I didn’t create one two years ago when the book was published, it’s about time I made one. I know better late than never, my apologies. I hope this playlist can take your mind off the bad stuff for a little bit and cheer you up. If you haven’t read Cooper Whitelaw, Conman Extraordinaire, please purchase a copy for yourself or a friend or two! It’s available on AmazonB&N, and Smashwords. Also add it to your Goodreads Shelf. Download a review copy. if you’ve like to review it.

And now without further ado, here’s the official playlist for Cooper Whitelaw, Conman Extraordinaire.

 Track Listing:

  1. California Love- 2Pac, Roger, Dr. Dre
  2. 2. One Jump-Brad Kane
  3. I Love You-EXID
  4. Drive-Lolawolf
  5. Santa Monica-Everclear
  6. Devil-Super Junior
  7. Fake Love-BTS
  8. Because of You-Kelly Clarkson
  9. Meet Me On The Equinox-Death Cab For Cutie
  10. Me & You-EXID
  11. The Sweet Escape-Gwen Stefani feat. Akon
  12. Dragnet Song-From the TV series Dragnet
  13. Luck Be a Lady-Frank Sinatra
  14. Alive-Sia
  15. Raise Your Glass-P!nk
  16. Follow-Monsta X
  17. Losing You-Wonho
  18. Beautiful Night-Monsta X
  19. Encore-Cheryl Lynn

 

 

 

When You’re Stressed the F**k Out… Part III: Three Questions

Greetings and salutations dear readers, it’s been a while since I’ve last written on here. A lot has gone down and while there’s no need to rehash all the terrible events, there’s a few questions that I would like to ask you…

How are you coping?

What are you doing to help you deal with everything that’s going on?  Did you become more productive during these past months? Have you picked up a new hobby? Or have you become unproductive? Please understand that it’s okay to not be unproductive. During these chaotic times, being unproductive is one of the best decisions you can make.

What have you’ve learned?

I’ve learned that I can do things that I didn’t think I could do or were frustrated or had given up on doing. I’m still attempting to do new things-but at a slow pace. I’ve learned not to rush and take my time.  What is time anyway?

I’ve also learned that people, organizations, things, etc. can become so messy. Recent events have revealed how messy a lot of folks really are and it’s both unsurprising and surprising.

Do you have any hope for the future?

Yes and no. I know that people worldwide are fighting for a better tomorrow but at the same time I’m in despair. But the hope I have tells me not to give up and keep going… but everyday it gets harder and harder.

Well readers, those are my questions. I hope that you’re being safe, that you’re wearing a mask when it’s required to, and that you’re doing well. Never give up, never surrender. Don’t go quietly into the night and remember your existence is important.

My Year In Books: 2019

Greetings and salutations my dear followers! It’s that time again to discuss the results of my GoodReads Reading Challenge. You know the drill, I’ve been doing this since 2013. So

As I’ve said in previous posts, this year I’ve been busy working on something that’ll improve my life and I didn’t think I would have time to read, but lo and behold I accomplished my reading goal and even doubled the amount that I read!

My reading goal was 15 books and I read 33.  There were comics and graphic novels, novels, biographies, poetry, inspirational, informative and more. This year I started reading a book series A Twisted Tale and I’ve been enjoying all of the books in it. This series is Disney’s version of “What If” and takes a spin on some of the properties’ popular stories such as Mulan, Beauty and the Beast, The Little Mermaid, etc. These takes so far have been pretty good and somewhat dark-Sleeping Beauty & Beauty & the Beast are the darkest ones I’ve read. You can read the full report here. You can see some of the books that I read below:

Granted I read less books this year than last, but that was to be expected with what I’ve been working on. Last year I had three goals:

Read at least 15 books for the year.

Read the entire original Sailor Moon Manga Series.

Read books by authors of color.

So I kinda met my goals so yay? For 2020 the main goal will be to read 20 books. And I’ll add three sub-goals:

Read more books by authors of color, read The Outsiders (since I skipped a year (or two) of reading it), and read the entire original run of the Sailor Moon manga.

 

I think these are doable. What about you my friends? Did you accomplish what you set out to read this year? What are your reading goals for the new decade?  Let me know in the comment section below or on my Facebook page.

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year! See you in 2020.

Nine Life Tips To Take With You Into 2020

With 2019 almost at an end, a new decade is nearly upon us. Like its previous comrades, this year has been a doozy in more ways than one. I don’t know about you but I’ve been stressed out, disappointed, angry, sad, heartbroken, and a few rare moments happy.

While I’ve barely been writing on this site, I have been writing and working on things to improve my life since last year. And so far that’s been going well-it hasn’t been easy in fact it’s been very stressful, so much so that I became physically ill because of it-but I’m far from being done. I’ve still got a lot of hard work ahead of me and I’m up for the challenge.

2020 brings a brand new decade and much uncertainty as we’re gearing up for an election here in the U.S. and many things-hopefully good and not bad-in our personal and professional lives. So today’s post is an encouraging one-its somewhat a complication of things that I’ve written in the past of what I’ve learned whether it be from writing or from other life experiences. But I wanted to share them with you to encourage you and to get you ready for whatever may come in the new decade. So without further ado here are nine life tips to take with you into 2020.

Stop comparing your journey to other people’s journeys.

Ever looked at what other people in your age bracket or career field are doing and wondering why you aren’t where they are?  Raises hand, guilty as charged. For a long while I would do this and think to myself that I should be farther along.  Comparing myself to others didn’t do me any good, in fact it stressed me out.

Don’t rush.

When you see other people succeeding at a faster pace in the same areas that you’re working on, it can be easy to compare yourself to them.  It’s not healthy to do this. A lot of times when we look at other people we may feel inclined to play catch up. When we rush, we make more mistakes and set ourselves back even further.

Everyone has their own roads and paths created for them and each one must travel at their own pace. It’s important to remain focused on where we are right now.  Don’t worry about what other people are doing, focus on what you’re doing and what you want to accomplish.

That being said,

“Never give up, never surrender.”

This phrase from Galaxy Quest has become one of my favorite life lessons. In my writing journey there have been multiple times where I become frustrated and wanted to throw in the towel. However, I learned to put my work aside and take a break from it. Then I could return to it later with a fresh approach in hand.

Disappointment is a part of life.

It’s either predictable and preventable or unavoidable and beyond our control. We need make sure that our expectations are reasonable by keeping them realistic, making sure that we didn’t set the bar too high or low, and asking ourselves if this was the outcome that we wanted.

We must deal with disappointment in a positive way by channeling our energy into other endeavors, reevaluating our perception and behavior, and redirecting our energy and focus on positive solutions.  It’s important to avoid self-loathing, blaming ourselves and others.

It’s okay to complain (Sometimes).

Look of course there are people who are in worse or better situations than you, that’s how it is. But that doesn’t mean you’re not allowed to vent or complain.  It’s okay if you need to vent or complain about something-big or small, insignificant or important, do it. Get it off your chest (while having the understanding that things could be worse of course) in a constructive manner!

Change is a necessity for growth.

Change is hard but a lot of times in life it’s necessary for growth to happen.  Sometimes change involves leaving things or people behind that have weighed you down and kept you stagnant.  Or it may involve you never settling in different areas of your life and knowing your value. It might also help you become picky in deciding who or what deserves your time, energy, and cash. Change can help you be sure that you’re investing in things that are worthwhile and or save for important things in the future.

Practice self-care

The world can be a chaotic mess and there are days that you’ll feel overwhelmed, overworked, underpaid, etc.  It’s important to take time out for yourself, especially whenever you feel stressed the f***out.Stress is a part of life and there are many ways-negatively and positively-to deal with it.

Whether it’s listening to your favorite artists, watching a film, exercising, aromatherapy, writing your thoughts out in a journal, and or practicing mindfulness, find time to take care of yourself.

No matter how small, an accomplishment is an accomplishment.

While I might not have accomplished much according to society’s standards, there are many goals that I’ve met.  I wrote and self-published a novel and two novellas, among  other things that I’ve accomplished. Big or small, celebrate your accomplishments! You did that! All that hard work has paid off and has finally come into fruition.

Always forward, forward always.

As I continue my life’s journey, I’m both anxious and hopeful of what the future has in store for me. I can’t give up nor can I surrender. There will be days when I want to and there will be times when hope seems lost, but I must move forward. Even if I must take some steps backward, I’ll continue to move forward, no matter what. And I wish for you to do the same in your own journey.

I hope these tips were beneficial to you and if you have any suggestions please share in the comments below or on my Facebook page.

Remember your existence is important and I’ll see you soon.

When You’re Stressed the F**k Out… Part II

Back in August, I wrote a brief post about being… well let this gif express how I was feeling:

Well things got worse after that and I was feeling… well the following gifs capture how I felt very well:

 

You get the idea. Yes, once again I was stressed the f**k out and I mean all the f**king way out. So much so that I got physically ill! This all happened in October and part of November.  Things were just going haywire, I was frustrated and apprehensive on the thing I’ve been working on, work was cutting my hours, family stuff, finances, and things going on in K-pop community due to cyberbullying.

It was a lot and it wasn’t a fun time for me. I don’t think I’ve ever been that stressed before in my life. Thankfully, I was able deal with the stress in a healthy way and while I’m not extremely stressed as I had been during this time period I’m still a little stressed and anxious.

So I’m back with seven more tips to help alleviate your stress and anxiety:

From WebMD:

Get enough sleep

Six to eight hours is recommended. Our bodies and minds need time to recover from stressful events.

Don’t use alcohol, drugs, or compulsive behaviors to reduce stress.

These things can stress your body even more. You might end up like Sylvester here if you:

Breathe deeply:

“Take a 5-minute break and focus on your breathing. Sit up straight, eyes closed, with a hand on your belly. Slowly inhale through your nose, feeling the breath start in your abdomen and work its way to the top of your head. Reverse the process as you exhale through your mouth.”

From VeryWellMind.com:

Create Artwork

Reconnect with your creative side and draw, paint, or color in a coloring book as all of these can be great stress relievers.

Give yourself a regular pep talk

Instead of speaking negatively about yourself, speak positively.  This can help you develop a healthier outlook on life and can help manage your emotions and take positive action.

Get social support

Having supportive people in your life is essential to managing stress. Reach out to someone in your existing social networks be it a family member, friend, etc. If you don’t have emotional support or friendship you may need to expand your network by joining an organization, attending a support group, or getting professional help.

That being said…

If there are things or people adding to your stress, CUT THEM OUT! 

This is one of the best ways to reduce your stress and give you more peace. Sometimes shitty people come into our lives and we need to cut them off.  We also need to get rid of bad habits and make way for better ones that can help us feel better.

I hope these tips can help you alleviate your stress and anxiety. With the new decade approaching we’re going to need all the help we can get. I wish you love, peace, and health in 2020. Remember your existence is important and I’ll see you soon.

 

 

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